You know the situation we’ve all been there you like her, you want her to notice you but you don’t even get a glance and the moments passed and the opportunity is gone. in this article we give you seven tips to help you attract women. today’s article is about attracting girls, so many guys out there struggle to get notice and frankly speaking this and always me, why because there’s amazing guys like you watching this video out there who women deserve to see and be with, as for me I think I’m doing okay in the relationship thing, I’ve been married for over 10 years and have an amazing relationship with my amazing wife, that said it’s not easier tracking when I’m frankly speaking I’ve got plenty of experience screwing up, like really not doing myself a service, so I’m going to share some lessons I’ve learned the hard way, so that you don’t have to, now bear in mind the last tip is the most important to make sure to read to the end because you don’t want to miss it.
Right, first things first, you want to focus on the way you present yourself, you see people like to believe that if you look at what’s with him then your attractiveness doesn’t matter, the reality is yes people should look at your personality and character, but before they get to see that they can only see how you look, therefore first impressions are vital and incredibly critical to how you will be perceived in the world and in all walks of life, don’t underestimate the importance of presenting yourself well, so the first step is to make sure you dress well, shoes are going to be the first thing you want to get right because often the Fasting people both men and women notice is your footwear, you need to make sure you wear something appropriate and something clean, because women will notice the little details in this sense if you take care of issues it shows that you care about the little details, this leads on to other items of clothing your style and accessories such as your watch or bracelet, they send a conscious or even unconscious signal about you, get the fit right ensure your style fits your personality and make sure you take how you dress, it’s one of the first steps to ensure you get noticed by others, as an example on first meeting my wife I wore a shirt that at the time I hadn’t actually put much thought into, it seemed relatively smart and happened to be clean so I wore it, however it turns out that shirts made an immediate impact on her and to the state she refuses to let me throw it out, as it holds sentimental value to her, why did they have such an impact? well it turns out to fit really well was a style which was about a year ahead of its time, so only just starting to make an impact in the media and it portrayed personality and character without her having even spoken to me, the shirt spoke volumes in my favor and I’ve not looked back since, however your style will be meaningless if you don’t take care of yourself in terms of grooming and attitude.
You see the small details make a massive difference, make sure you tuck the shirt in if it’s meant to be tucked, make sure your hair is kept how you intend it to be and make sure you shave if you need to, I’ve always been guilty of getting sloppy in these areas but I am sure that if I’m expected to present myself well my general grooming will be on point, women notice the details and they expect you to rightly do the same, they often have to put much more effort in their own grooming so it’s only common courtesy to at least make the effort yourself, right? the Third Point comes down to personality which is to be a decent person, people often say nice guys finish last, not true guys who don’t take the initiative finish last, nice guys are what women want, be a decent guy do good deeds for others be helpful and polite, it’s the little things such as open doors letters walk through first pull out a chair before you seat yourself and so on, you see psychologically women will be perceptive to your attitude, on an instinctive level it’s natural for most women to look at how a man provides for his loved ones, the little deed showed that you’re prepared to take care of her and care for her well-being.
The four point is related, which you have to show your personality as both a partner and as a provider, women like men want people who can challenge them intellectually and help them grow as an individual, therefore make an effort to learn and grow, develop yourself so that you can engage in deeper conversations, however on top of that show yourself as a provider, by showing ambition to grow and prepare to work Hard, people value those who make the extra effort, again this is psychological as you’re presenting yourself as someone who’s prepared to do what’s necessary as a provider, the fifth tip is engage in the woman, make eye contact listen carefully and show that she has your attention, you like her? right?? then show it with how you communicate, it’s by engaging with strong communication skills you show that you enjoy her company, which frankly speaking people appreciate, for example let’s flip the script you’re trying to attract one because you want her to be interested in you, right? well it works both ways. this leads on to the sixth point, show an interest bubble means but don’t act needy or desperate, people want to be with others who show a competent level of Independence, they like attention but if you prevent them from living their own lives they will feel overwhelmed by the relationship.
This is why people play a game so just trying to figure out how long to wait before calling after a date and so on, the end of missing the point though, because they end up making the relationship competitive when it should be collaborative, a much better approach is trying to understand why you’re making the call and what message is sending when you’re doing so, make a call early if you want to say that you had a great time, but just don’t pressure the other person to commit to anything unless they’re ready to do so. the final and most important tip is be confident about yourself, it’s no good pretending to be confident women will see through that, you have to feel good about yourself and show this to the woman, you see principally when people look at partners it’s a selfish endeavor, because inevitably people will be looking at seeing what someone else can give to them, from any woman they want a man who can provide for and support them, now this might not be in terms of putting food on the table as in today’s world the traditional gender roles don’t apply as they once used to, but more importantly it’s about providing emotional support and being there to help one another, if you don’t believe in yourself and can’t support yourself people will question how you can provide for them, you see all of the points above from how you dressed being supportive to showing an interest without being needy, are all important indicators of an individual’s confidence in themselves, therefore be confident and really believe in yourself and you’ll immediately be more attractive to the woman of your dreams, thanks for reading today’s article what’s helped you attract women in your life I would love to know in the comment section below.
Randall C. Schneider is the founder and owner of ANTOCAT. he is been freelancing for many years and now focusses on WordPress development and blog design for small businesses and online publishers